Today, Good Friday, represents a day of great sacrifice.  Today is the day my Savior set aside His desires and took on the pain and anguish that was meant for me so that I could have a better life, both here on Earth and for eternity.  Although we may never appreciate the magnitude of Jesus’ sacrifice, regardless of our faith, I think we can understand that a great sacrifice was made.

So, as I’ve been pondering that thought I’ve begun to wonder what sacrifices I’ve made for the people I love and value.  When have I put aside my desires for the benefit of someone else?

How often have I really sacrificed something of great value to me?  I have yet to give my wardrobe to someone in need.  Yes, I have given bags of clothing to the local homeless shelter, but if I’m honest, the clothes I give away are not my “best” clothes or the ones I like the most.

I have never sold my home and given the profits to a homeless family.  I have not turned my job over to someone who is unemployed.  And I have never given someone free access to my bank account so they could buy food and supplies.

Thankfully, most of us will never be called to make “big” sacrifices like those above or be asked lay down our lives for a loved one, but we have the opportunity to sacrifice ourselves nearly every day.

When I choose to run an errand for a friend instead of finishing the project I’m working on, I give my friend the sacrifice of my time.  When I choose to have my daughter’s room painted instead of investing in a piece of furniture for myself I give her a sacrifice of my desires.  When I choose to give a friend a gift of money instead of going to the movies I am offering her a sacrifice of my finances.

Thankfully, I have the ability to offer these “do-able” sacrifices to the people I value, and sometimes, to people I don’t even know.  And although these sacrifices pale in comparison to the One that was given for me, I am glad I have the opportunity to give, to show other people how special they are.

Choose a Better Life by choosing to sacrifice something of value for someone you treasure.  It’s a tangible way to give the gift of love.